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Monday, December 26, 2011

A Mom's Musings

‘Twas the Day After Christmas

Time, at last, to slow down.

‘Twas the day after Christmas, and all through my house, I was the only one up early - not my kids or my spouse. The children were home for a full week out of school, and I was racking my brain trying to find things for them to do. But the week between Christmas and New Year’s is my favorite time of year; as the gifts have been bought and we’ve spread all our cheer. The stressful month leading up to it, all the merriment abound - now it’s time to relax and slow down…. Well, you get the point – and I apologize for getting carried away.  I blame it on being in total holiday overload for the past several weeks!  Every year I tell myself that I’m not going to over-do-it with spending too much, trying to do too much and stressing myself out …

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Tuesday, December 20, 2011

A Mom's Musings

Tis’ the Season

A family’s final countdown to Christmas

We were at a holiday party last weekend and someone asked my husband if we were ready for the holidays.  Since I’ve been dubbed the “CEO of Holidays” at our house, he immediately turned to me and said, “Are we?”  At that point in time unfortunately my answer was, “Not yet”.  But now with the holidays right on our doorstep and as we head into the final stretch, I’m confident that we’re now as ready as we’ll ever be.  This is because by now, we’ve listened to just about every holiday song ever sung and watched just about every holiday movie ever written including “Santa Claus is Coming to Town”, “Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer”, “The Santa Clause” (1, 2 and 3), “How The Grinch Stole Christmas” (cartoon and Jim Carrey version), “Home Alone” (…

Eileen P

1:01 pm on Wednesday, December 21, 2011

Anyone that sends cards that just contain their names (i.e. signed "Bob, Jane, and Emily Smith") should just go ahead and ditch the idea. I love to write personal notes in each card that I send and I LOVE to receive cards that aren't just signed. Total card ecstasy? Cards with pictures!!   more ›

Monday, November 28, 2011

A Mom's Musings

Casual Black Friday

A different approach to Black Friday may make a difference all Holiday season.

By the time we watched the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day parade stroll into Herald Square and our turkey was cooked and served, the 2011 holiday shopping season at our house was already in full swing.  As for my gift lists, for the first time in many years, I was already in pretty good shape. They say the early bird gets the worm, but that was kind of hard to determine this year because the biggest shopping day of the year, Black Friday, morphed into Black Thursday, with pre-Black Friday deals running all last week.  The best thing about it all in our house were the hilarious Black Friday commercials on TV – my kids and I couldn’t get enough of them!  While I've succumbed to the Black Friday insanity on more than one occasion in the past, …

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Susan Larson

10:52 am on Wednesday, November 30, 2011

Congratulations to Karen on her one year anniversary writing A Mom's Musings for Patch.   more ›

Monday, November 21, 2011

A Mom's Musings

Thanksgiving Dinner Angst

For the first time ever, I'm hosting a full house and tackling the complete Thanksgiving feast.

Cooking has never been my forte, and I’m certainly no Martha Stewart when it comes to entertaining.  I can handle a simple dinner fare each night for my husband and kids, but the thought of hosting a large number of people and tackling a full Thanksgiving dinner is enough to give me nightmares.  Over the years, I’ve always been lucky to garner an invite to a family member’s house for the big meal, but I figured my days of always the guest and never the hostess were coming to an end soon. That time has finally arrived.  This year I threw caution to the wind. We’re going all out by having 13 people over for Thanksgiving dinner.  That may not seem like a lot, but to someone who’s never had more than two guests over for a meal at any one time…

C. Ford

11:45 am on Monday, November 28, 2011

I hosted for the first time as well this year - and it was sooooo nice not having to get in a car and drive for 4+ hours! Because everyone is long distance, we had a smaller group - 8 guests plus my own family of four. I only needed to cook for 12, but I've hosted many parties where I was cooking for 40+ (and served it buffet style), so my stress was on getting it all cooked and on the table at …   more ›

Monday, November 14, 2011

A Mom's Musings

Home for the Weekend

A first visit home from my college freshman son.

“I’m coming home this weekend, and I need quarters.” The text came in and I was overjoyed.  I hadn’t seen my oldest son since he left for his freshman year in college a little over two months ago.  I thought I wasn’t going to see him until Thanksgiving, so this surprise was a welcome treat!  I imagined what the weekend ahead would bring, and in my mind it played out something like this:  He arrives home and we sit down together at the kitchen table while he devours a full feast that I prepared just for him; he tells me all about college life; and then we spend the rest of the weekend watching movies and shopping at the mall. Ok, remember that was my vision.  Since I hadn’t seen him in a while, I couldn’t help but revert back to when he was…

Mandy

6:41 am on Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Awww - so glad you had a nice visit with your son and that he is doing so well! I remember the best highschool graduation present I got was a big piggy bank full of quarters that you could shake out if you needed one. Sounds like that would make a good Christmas present for him :-)   more ›

Monday, November 7, 2011

A Mom's Musings

Snowtober

An early dusting excites the kids and motivates mom for holiday shopping.

“Hooray!  No school on Monday,” my kids yelled when they saw the snow falling last weekend.  “Not likely,” I told them based on weather reports that we were only supposed to get a light dusting in our neck of the woods (and hoping they were right).  Earthquakes, floods, a hurricane and now snow in October?  This is Virginia after all!  Just when we thought it was time to rake the leaves, we nearly had to drag out our snow shovels and ice scrapers.  But it appeared that we dodged a bullet this time, as many of our neighbors up north had power outages due to snowfalls measured in feet, not inches.  I reminded my kids they already used up one snow day when we got the flooding rain. That only leaves two remaining, and we still have a long …

Mandy

7:03 am on Monday, November 7, 2011

I'm happy to report I'm done with my Christmas shopping :-) But, like you, will likely end up getting a few more things, thinking that I don't have enough!   more ›

Monday, October 31, 2011

A Mom's Musings

Trick-or-Treat

A family prepares for a fun and festive Halloween night

I have to admit that I’ve never been a really big Halloween person.  Except for my college years when it always meant some really cool parties, the only thing I’ve ever really loved about it is that after it’s over, my favorite holidays (Thanksgiving and Christmas) are just around the corner.  My kids on the other hand love it.  About a month prior they’ll get excited and start contemplating their costumes.  They’ll dig through our downstairs closet where past costumes are stored, hoping to put together this year’s look. When I was a kid, I used to design my own costume and remember how much fun it was.  My mom saved all of her old prom dresses, so I usually ended up being some type of princess or gypsy.  My brother made his own costumes …

Mandy

7:00 am on Tuesday, November 1, 2011

I've never been a huge Halloween person either but last night when I took my little ones trick-or-treating for the first time I got so excited when I came to a house that was really decorated up! So fun that people do this. As for the extra candy - that is what office-kitchens are for! Take it in and see it disappear in no time :-)   more ›

Monday, October 24, 2011

A Mom's Musings

Tackling Household Clutter

A mom finds her kitchen table and takes back the family room.

I don’t understand why everything in the free world seems to end up on my kitchen table.  On any given day it’s a total and complete disaster. It never ceases to amaze me just how much a family of five can accumulate.  How much “stuff” do two adults, three children, a dog and a goldfish need?  Everything we bring into our house (I confess this includes me) seems to land on the kitchen table.  There it stays, in an endless holding pattern.     I can clear it off one day, and then a few days later it’s filled again with school papers, magazines, newspapers, toys, books, mail and a number of other miscellaneous items.  It got so bad I bought a bigger table to provide us more space, but we then just accumulated twice as much stuff!  The other …

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Susan Larson

2:54 pm on Wednesday, October 26, 2011

That's my challenge. Creating 'homes' for all my things. Especially in small living quarters with limited storage. Suggestions, anyone?   more ›

Tuesday, October 18, 2011

A Mom's Musings

Keeping a Family Organized

A mom finds her kitchen calendar a necessary crutch.

It’s the central nerve center for our family and the only way I can keep it all together.  It logs all events, practices, games, business trips, birthday parties, vacations, school holidays, and play dates.  And it has saved this forgetful mom on more than one occasion.  What’s this miracle tool?  It’s our family calendar that hangs inside a cabinet door in our kitchen.  Basically, if it’s not on the calendar, I don’t consider it happening. The hard part has been getting my family on board! I’ve spent the past 12 years trying to train my husband to put stuff on the calendar so that we can plan ahead.  He’s famous for not telling me things he’s doing until the last minute.  “I told you about it last week,” he always says.  Yeah right.  My …

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Susan Larson

11:28 am on Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Molly, that sounds like one that might work for me! I've tried so many different kinds.   more ›

Monday, October 10, 2011

A Mom's Musings

Family Dinner

Making an effort to gather everyone together for dinner.

I’ve been warning my family for months and I finally followed through.  I had everyone sit down together for a family dinner. “Noooooo," my younger two kids said in unison when I called them into the kitchen at mealtime.  I honestly didn’t realize it was such a big deal to share a meal together, but evidently it felt like punishment to my kids.  I actually found myself telling them if they didn’t engage, we would make it two nights instead of just one to start.  Before my oldest son went off to college, the seating arrangements during a normal dinnertime in our house would entail me, my husband and my oldest son eating the same meal at our kitchen table, and my younger two children eating a separate meal at the coffee table in our family …

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Jordin Twenhofel

4:18 am on Thursday, October 13, 2011

Dear Mrs. Yoon, this author wrote about her young son and daughter who ate with their mother and father for the first time in their life. They are far from a dysfunctional family upbringing. In fact they are from quite the opposite. This author has a streaming column that describes her family and their daily life occurrences.   more ›

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